Sexiness

So, I think it's important for every woman to feel sexy, at least some of the time. It helps boost confidence and libido, and it's just a good, fun thing to believe about yourself. I realized recently that, while I was with Will, I started to rely on him to make me feel beautiful and sexy instead of feeling it from within. That might have been one of the hardest things to do once I became single - reclaiming my internal, personal beauty and reminding myself that I am sexy and attractive to other people. For a while I kept up relying on other people to tell me that I was pretty and beautiful, but I've finally started to recover my confidence with the help of music (like Lady Gaga and Ida Maria). Don't get me wrong - I still have my days where I wake up and text someone and say "Please remind me that I'm pretty." But it's nice to know that, on most days, I can get ready to "Beautiful, Dirty, Rich" by Lady Gaga or "I Like You So Much Better When You're Naked" by Ida Maria and feel perfectly lovely and glamorous and sexy.